"Are You Tired of ETHICAL MISCONDUCT in the LEGAL PROFESSION?
Are You Tired of LAWYERS WHO LIE?"
I wrote that so many years ago, I forgot about it. But data tracking one of my websites today, I found a father's rights group linked to it. (Sometimes they like me because I call for oversight.)
I also found on there a quote I still like:
Mark Perlmutter, attorney and author, Why Lawyers (And the Rest
of Us) Lie
"...one of the systemic influences on lying in the legal
system is that lying is a norm. It's an insidious
development. We lawyers start by justifying it in
circumstances in which 'everybody does it'. Then, once
on the slippery slope of justification, we find it
easy to rationalize lying in more and more
circumstances. Eventually, it becomes so commonplace
that we're now unconscious of it."
"...lying is a norm." And this blog is named Shelter From The Norm.
Ok, cut to the chase. Ron Romines, Town Council Member for Woodside, CA is running for office again. Ron represented my ex husband in a post trial, post appeal collaborative law disaster. There is a bar complaint pending for various ethical violations.
Engage your mirror neurons and come along with me for a ride on one of those ethical violations. You have hired an attorney at $350.00 per hour, two hour meeting each time. You pay for two attorneys at this price. Both attorneys engage you in a process based on honesty, transparency, and full disclosure. Should one of the clients fail in any of these, they are thrown out of the process. The attorneys are not expected to engage in deception and the emphasis is not on their actions.
But this process has no oversight. Behind closed doors there is no court reporter. No digital recorder. No technology - we move backwards in time. While earning his $350.00+ an hour, the attorneys take turns being stenographers. They are multitasking while representing a client. These handwritten notes are typed up by a secretary and this becomes the "official record". Should you not rebut each and every mistake, they use your words against you. But I digress. There is no oversight.
In any situation devoid of oversight, corruption creeps in.
From the
office of Attorney
Ron Romines to Attorney Michael Lowy:
Michael,
There is a series of emails that I am
forwarding to you pursuant to Ron's discussion with you before he left on
vacation. There are 9 emails.
Laura
Assistant to Ron Romines
Attorney-client privilege has a such high regard in law that breaking it by sharing client emails with opposing counsel is reason for disbarrment.
If a lawyer cares so little about following the law, about breaking ethics violations, can this same lawyer really be the model for the citizens of Woodside?
What would the rest of the country think of a Mayor Pro Tem who can't follow the laws?
Back to local citizens.
Does Woodside pride itself on its woodsy, horsy, small town with big bucks, cozy, we're all friends atmosphere? Oh a few tiffs over bike riding, parked cars and Steve Jobs, but yes, it is a tight knit community. Just like the collaborative law community. And do they police themselves? They do not.
Coverups may not seem so important in small town, have a venture capitalist over for Sunday brunch kinda town, but that's the point. Corruption anywhere, whether in the academic air of Stanford University and cancer cures (that's another story, playing out in divorce court in Santa Clara County now), or Zimbardo's prison experiment, or a small meeting room with a very small amount of money at stake, but two monstrously evil attorneys, harming the clients paying them.
Do you think "monstrously evil" is over the top? Ask: Is there "baby evil?"
Walk on the slippery slope, and it doesn't matter. Baby evil turns into monster evil.
Would you hire an attorney that lies about you?
Would you hire Ron Romines who wrote an email to opposing counsel agreeing to an ethics violation that harmed the collaborative people he promised to help? And then lie about it?
Is this what you want as Mayor Pro Tem of small, bucolic Woodside?
Only if you justify it:
"...one of the systemic influences on lying in the legal
system is that lying is a norm. It's an insidious
development. We lawyers start by justifying it in
circumstances in which 'everybody does it'. Then, once
on the slippery slope of justification, we find it
easy to rationalize lying in more and more
circumstances. Eventually, it becomes so commonplace
that we're now unconscious of it."
The Bar complaint will be posted on divorceandlawyers.com within a week.
Ron Romines as Mayor Pro Tem of Woodside and the citizens therein are no better than those who rationalize "everybody does it." From there, larger and larger lies become easier and easier to justify.
And one day, the monsters are running the town, the city and the country.
Crawford Texas is a small town with horses too.
The Town Council is the legislative body of the
Town of Woodside, with all the regulatory and corporate powers provided
under California state law. The Town Council provides the policy
direction that guides the operation of the Town, adopts ordinances and resolutions
that constitute the legislative intent of the Town, and sets the Town's
priorities through the adoption of an annual budget and the provision
of direction to the Town Manager. The Town Council represents the
Town's residents through these actions and through the conveyance of
constituent requests and concerns to the Town staff. The Town Council
also appoints all members to all advisory committees, the Planning
Commission, and the Architectural and Site Review Board.